Compatibility Counselling
Finding “your person” isn’t just about love – it’s about deep self-awareness and mutual alignment.
🔍 Struggling to find a partner you can truly build a future with?
In our sessions, we’ll explore the emotional and practical aspects of your relationship challenges, uncover internal blocks, and dive into the realities of modern dating. I approach this topic not only as a professional therapist but also as someone who has personally walked this path.
✨ A Personal Journey Toward Compatibility
After a painful divorce at 28, I began exploring relationship dynamics deeply. I dated extensively, driven by one question:
Why do some relationships fall apart over time?
What truly makes two people compatible?
Over the years, I developed my own compatibility framework — shaped by research, personal experience, and trial and error. It helped me find the partner I had been searching for. We’ve now been happily married for over 9 years.
📖 I share this experience in my book:
“Conscious Search for Love: An In-depth Exploration of Compatibility in a Romantic Relationship”
🔄 The 4 Dimensions of Compatibility
Incompatibility can show up in several key areas:
- Emotional: Unhealthy emotional dynamics, attachment patterns, or recurring conflicts.
- Sexual: Lack of attraction, mismatched needs, or incompatible sexual values.
- Personality: Clashing temperaments or struggles to truly connect on a daily basis.
- Existential: Different life goals, values, or visions for the future.
⚠️ Reality check: Compatibility in one or two areas can make us ignore deeper mismatches elsewhere – until problems resurface.
💬 Common client experiences — and mine too:
There’s strong sexual chemistry (#2), but outside the bedroom, things feel off emotionally, personally, or spiritually (#1, #3, #4).
The relationship starts great (#3), the attraction is there (#2), but over time, you grow apart in values or patterns turn toxic (#1, #4).
You’re stable as a couple (#1, #3, #4), share core values, and don’t fight — but intimacy is fading (#2).
🧠 What You’ll Gain from Compatibility Counselling
A clearer understanding of yourself and your needs
Awareness of blind spots in your relationship patterns
Tools to recognize and choose more compatible partners
The foundation for building healthy, long-term relationships
❤️ It’s not just about finding a partner
It’s about becoming the person who can build a deep, lasting connection.
💻 Available in-person or online
Whether you prefer a cozy in-person session or the flexibility of online counselling — I’m here to meet you where you’re most comfortable.
🔗 Ready to begin your journey?
💥 Let’s go — your journey to conscious love starts here.